Here are some frequently asked questions about Personal Development Coaching that you may want to know about
What is personal development and transformation coaching?
Personal development and transformation coaching is a process wherein a skilled coach helps you discover, develop and maximise your own true, unique potential and life purpose. It includes helping you understand yourself, what drives you, what stops you from achieving what you want out of life, understand why you are not feeling fulfilled even when you seem to have what you thought you wanted. It helps you set goals that are aligned with who you truly are and helps you achieve them. It helps you dissolve fears, guilt and limiting belief stopping you from uncovering and living what you’d love to do in life.
What can it do for me?
It can transform you from someone who is:
unclear, unsure, just getting by, frustrated, feeling chaotic, feeling you’re not good enough, feeling you don’t have what it takes, scared, afraid of rejection, looking at the outside world for answers, looking at others to make you feel good about yourself, feeling unsuccessful, lacking confidence, lacking direction
to someone who is:
clear, certain, achieving, knowing you are someone with big things to share to the world, calm, aware and expressing fully your true talents and gifts, knowing what to do to be where you would love to be, courageous, able to embrace rejection with confidence, know how to search yourself for answers that are true for you, have inner certainty and knowing of your true brilliance.
Can personal development and transformation coaching help me to become more successful?
Yes. The primary aim of this coaching is to help you uncover, realise and express your unique gifts and life purpose that can be deeply buried in some of us so you truly do what you love and love what you do.
You will expand your awareness and influence and acquire and develop tools and skills that will help you in the fulfilment of your dreams and vision such as understanding your true values, learning how to balance your perceptions, dissolving your fears, emotional charges and barriers, understanding how you personally affect financial wealth in your life and what you can do to increase it, having loving and effective communication with others and creating strategies that are actionable.
The by-product of these is your growth, fulfilment and achievement in the areas of life that are most important to you including your career, business and relationships.
I don’t know what I want. Can it help me?
Yes, this coaching can certainly help you figure out what you would really love to do in life and how you can get there.
I know what I want but my current circumstances make it impossible for me to go for it. How can this coaching help me?
Sometimes, we get ourselves stuck with the belief that we cannot do what we would love in life, perhaps due to financial, family or other responsibilities.
Because we don’t want to disappoint ourselves or others and because we don’t yet know how to achieve what we would love, we make ourselves believe that what we want is impossible and we try to forget them and not work on strategies that will help us fulfil our dreams.
However, we are not put on this earth with a dream in our hearts that cannot be manifested. When a dream is heartfelt and it is truly what we would love, there is always a way if we give ourselves the permission, realistic time frame, belief in ourselves and outside help that we need.
Personal development and transformation coaching can help you clarify your dreams, help you become empowered and aware of your strengths, help you learn how to communicate your dreams with others so you get supported and help you put strategies in place so you can fulfil what is in your heart.
What guarantees do I have?
Our first 1 hour session is free of charge (this is your free “Your Personal Drivers and Barriers” coaching session). During this time, the both of us can determine whether we are a good fit for personal development and transformation coaching and if I’m the coach that can help you.
After that, your first paid session has a money-back guarantee in the unlikely event that you think it was not valuable for you.
In the unlikely event that you decide that you did not get the value you expected after your first paid session, I will return your payment and you can cancel the rest of the program (if you are on the Individualised Program).
It’s my way of giving you peace of mind that you will get quality and effective coaching from me. The rest is up to you along with my commitment in helping you release that brilliance within.
How long before I see the results that I want?
The time frame for getting your results depends on what they are.
For short-term type “goals” such as getting over a very specific fear, anger or guilt over something that is blocking you from moving forward in life, you can get your results in as little as 1 hour even if you have been holding this specific fear, anger or guilt for months or even years.
However, as you would be aware, some results are long-term goals and their achievement depend on your action and commitment to getting them. My job is to help you clarify those long-term goals, help you create the strategic action steps to achieve them and help you identify and resolve the commitment barriers that you may have.
I’m afraid of what my close family or friends will say if I spend this much money on myself. I’m also afraid my loved ones will not want me to be “empowered” or stand up to them. I feel guilty about this.
How long has this fear been holding you back, not only with your desire for personal development but with other areas of your life? Personal development and transformation coaching can help you take the reins and take charge of your life as well as have honest, effective communication with others.
I feel like I need it but I’m waiting for the exact right problem and the exact right time to do it.
Perhaps the biggest issue right now is the lack of clarity? If you feel this is stopping you from living a fulfilling life, consider personal development and transformation coaching. If it’s not such a big deal, then yes, perhaps you may not have a big need for coaching at this time.
How do I know you are the coach for me?
Your first 1 hour - “Your Personal Drivers and Barriers” coaching session - is free of charge. During this time, the both of us can determine whether we are a good fit for personal development coaching and if I’m the coach that can help you.
It’s hard for me to open up to people. What can I do about that?
Sometimes, the thing that stops us most from moving forward in life is our fear or difficulty in opening up to people. Personal development and transformation coaching is private and confidential and offers you a safe environment where you can open up and not feel judged or rejected.
It can then help you dissolve the issues associated with your difficulty in opening up to others so you can live a more fulfilling life, vocation and relationships.
I just have a general feeling of being unfulfilled but I don’t know exactly why. Can you help me?
Yes, this coaching can help you be clear on the issues why you are unfulfilled and what you can do about it.
What if I turn out to be the person I don’t want to become?
Personal development is not about turning you into something you don’t want to become. It is about helping you awaken yourself to the true you and helping you awaken to your true potential and purpose. It also helps you embrace all your different qualities and traits – you need them all!
Will it take a lot of effort to change? Is it difficult?
It’s our perception and hierarchy of values that dictate whether we see things as difficult or easy. Part of the process is to help you see things from a different perspective so it is no longer a roadblock for you but a fuel to move you forward.
I want to do it but I’m really busy.
It may not be as important in your life if you do not want to set aside time for it. That’s not right or wrong, it’s just your values and that’s ok.
I really want to do it but I don’t have the money.
Your perception of your self-worth, unrealistic expectations and your beliefs around money may be what’s keeping you in your current financial situation. If you are ready to change the course of your life, increase your self-worth and attract more abundance in your life, strongly consider personal development and transformation coaching.
We have all spent money on other things that have given us far less value. What is the value that will be created in your life when you are investing in your personal empowerment and the financial power that comes with it?
I’m just plain scared. I feel like it’s such a huge investment of money and time for me.
It’s normal to be unsure of something you haven’t tried out before.
This coaching can certainly help you dissolve the fears that are stopping you from fulfilling what you want in life.
If your uncertainty is in the quality and effectiveness of the coaching because you don’t know me, remember that the first 1 hour session is free of charge. This is your time to determine if personal development and transformation coaching is something you would like to invest in and that I’m the coach that can help you.
In addition, your first paid session has a money-back guarantee in the unlikely event that you think it was not valuable for you. It’s my way of giving you peace of mind that you will get quality and effective coaching from me.
In the unlikely event that you decide that you did not get the value you expected after your first paid session, I will return your payment and you can cancel the rest of the program (if you are on the Individualised Program).
If you don’t invest in your personal growth, who will?
